Q - Dear Annabelle, how do you know when its love or something else with no other relationships experience to compare it too ??????????? A - Dear Matty, Your problem is not that you donât know Îwhether itâs love or something elseâ......your problem is that you have nothing else to compare it to.. Pursue this one. You may get hurt. (It wonât kill you). At the age of 20, youâre not too young to start gathering experience. You may live to be the most experienced man on earth and STILL find times when you wonder Îwhether itâs love or something else.â (But at least youâll have some relationship experience to compare it to). Donât hold back from life. Waiting for some Îepic passionâ.....they donât come that way and, if you keep holding back you wonât recognize it if it DOES come............as youâve discovered. Besides, when it IS love.....well, you wonât need to ask me or anyone else......;) - Annabelle