Q - Dear Annabelle, I have been engaged for two years. My fiance has been planning on going away to college, but recently. he told me he wasn't going. I talked to him a week ago, (Saturday August 15), and he told me to call him on Sunday at 10, because he wanted to go to a movie. The next day, I called and found out that he left for school without telling me and without saying goodbye. He told his mother to tell me that he'd call me when he was ready, but it's been a week now and I still haven't heard from him. I don't know if he loves me anymore or if he thinks that we're still together. I've been emailing him but he doesn't return the messages. What should I do? There is also a possibility that I'm pregnant. A - Dear Melissa, Ouch!! Well, this sure doesnāt sound good............sorry. I hope youāre not pregnant, Īcause thatās a whole Īnother problem. There is no way I can sugar-coat this and Iām sure not going to give you a sermon. Youāre shaken quite enough. ( If you are pregnant, and he is the father, then he has responsibilities and that, for the sake of the child, is something you need to attend to -- immediately).Your lives will have changed drastically -- at least for the next eighteen years. Thatās just the way it is.......I assume that you, at least, are honorable, he looks to be an immature coward. If youāre not pregnant, then, at least you have information that he is NOT the guy for you. Please, ..........talk with your mom.......I hope you have a good relationship with her. That this kind of thing is devastating goes without saying. Take time, (and Ītimeā can be about two years), to heal from the pain of the abandonment, and while you canāt see it right now, this is not a Īhusbandā material kind of guy. Keep in touch..... - Annabelle