Q - Dear Annabelle, How can i make a woman or teen love me when she has another guy, but she cares about me ? A - Dear Armando, If a woman has someone else, she has someone else. There is NO WAY you can Īmake someone love youā......canāt happen, will never happen, itās not the way things work. Now, letās take a look at things. Youāre 15......if you really ARE talking about a Īwomanā, not a Īgirlā, then you may, as the title of your submission says, Īneed loveā......a motherās love. This is not uncommon for a young person your age to feel this way......you may be under a lot of pressure to Īgrow upā; and youāre not quite ready just yet --( you will be, just not right now)....slow down. It wasnāt that long ago that you were (you still are, really), a munchkin getting all smothered in momās hugs and kisses and getting tucked in at night. (Hey, weād ALL like never to have left that point sometimes.) Well, now youāre an adolescent and, boy is THAT ever tough. Youāre sorta stuck between being a kid and an adult and, if your culture is anything like I think it is, thereās not a lot of support for your age. I could be wrong, but you may be feeling inappropriate pressure to be an adult and youāre still feeling the tug of being a kid. Give the emotions a rest , (ha!, as though you could), for awhile and tend to your education. You have important things to do in this world. Youāll be a grown-up for a really long time, (if youāre lucky), and your Ījobā, right now, is to acquire as much knowledge about your place in the world and how you can contribute, as possible. Try to see girls as Ījust friendsā for a couple more years and give those raging hormones the day off. - Annabelle