Q - Dear Annabelle, I'm crushing bad on this guy in one of my college classes. I'm not sure if he feels the same about me, though. I have caught him staring at me occasionally, but we've never had a real conversation. Could you please give me some advice on how to see if he's interested? A - Dear Alicia, Well, the most potent weapon in a young womanâs arsenal is always a radiant smile along with a steady gaze into his baby-blueâs, (or brownâs, depending). If a guyâs interested and a girl smiles warmly at him, he almost always feels emboldened to, at least, say Îhelloâ. Too, you could always ask his help on one of the assignments. Keep in mind that young gentlemen like to feel useful......not used. They like to be admired.....honestly. And, they, especially, like to be fed. If you just Îhappenâ to have an extra brownie in your purse, (homemade, by you, of course), as either Îbaitâ or as a Îrewardâ for said Îhelp on homeworkâ, then youâve gone a Îfur piece towards makinâ a new friendâ. Good luck, have fun.......and DO stick to your studies. - Annabelle