Q - Dear Annabelle, Why is it that my so called boyfriend doesn't call me? He never spends any time with me anymore. What should I do? A - Dear Cocoa, Youâre kidding, right? (Read what you wrote to me.) Now, at 20, donât you deserve just a little better? (And, by Îbetterâ, I mean from your SELF!) Think for a moment, why would you volunteer to moon over someone who doesnât find you interesting enough to be with? Want to get.......*revenge*? Well, how about using the balance of your years at school to turn yourself into such a bright and well educated young women, not to mention an enormously fascinating conversationalist that HE will just die with regret that he didnât treat you better? Remember, Cocoa, the more you have to offer the world in the way of charm and accomplishments, the better position you put YOURSELF in to do the Îdeselectingâ! You might want to give some thought to becoming more of an active participant in your own life! - Annabelle