Q - Dear Annabelle, For the past two years I have been having sexual intercourse with my basketball coach. She is 23 years old. I want to break off the relationship but I am afraid she will cut me from the team. What should I do? A - Dear Jake, Since I haven't heard from you, I'll send this......perhaps it will help. What your coach is doing is VERY wrong...but she won't cut you from the team if you do what you know is right for you. Your hormones overcame your good sense and it was fun for awhile, .......(remember just how it was that your 'good sense' got overwhelmed and steel yourself against having this happen again....it's one of men's most predictable weaknesses and causes much mischief). Learn to think with your BIG head........youāll be a lot safer in the world. Now, the reason she wonāt Īcut you from the teamā is that, not only is her job on the line, so is her freedom.......what she has done is REALLY illegal.....and you may not be the first young man she has done this with. Without further information itās not appropriate for me to say more. Your parents may have a first-class hissyfit when you talk with them about this.....Iād certainly consider talking with them anyway. Itās always tempting to deal in absolutes, but thatās almost never the best solution to a problem. - Annabelle