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Q - Dear Annabelle,
Lately I have been seeing a guy that can care less about women. He feels that his money is ore important. So he is a big time player. I knew how he was when I first started seeing him We promised not to let our feelings get into it and it was just going to be a sex thing. Well, guess what? I let my feelings get into it, and I know that I cannot have him because he has girls everywhere. The sex is great and I know that he likes it because the way he acts when he is in it. But anyways he has been acting up, doing things like showing off in front of his friends. I know that he is not my man but I like him. What should I do because I know that it was just all about sex.
A - Dear Maisha,
You knew going in what you had. You didnāt know that women attach emotionally when they are sexually involved. Now you do. Get over it.....and *DONāT DO* that again! /:
I rethought what I'd said to you and wanted to send this to you as well. My best advice to you is this: women usually become emotionally attached once a relationship becomes sexual. Since this happened to you, even when you agreed with this man that it would not, take that as a sign that you are someone who cannot have just a "phsyical" relationship without emotions. I understand your trying to be able to separate your feelings from sex, and thinking that perhaps you could, but since this is not the way most women are made, and obviously not what worked for you, perhaps you should be very careful not to let yourself get hurt in such a way again. This could be a very good lesson for you in what doesn't work for you! Guard your heart!
- Annabelle
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