Q - Dear Annabelle, I really like this girl but she is my best friendās girlfriend. She likes me too and I don't know what I should do. PLEASE email me back. A - Dear Andy, ĪBest friendsā are REALLY hard to come by......and, since the two of you are a lot alike, itās understandable that your taste in girlfriends would be alike as well. Now, understand something, there will ALWAYS be more women in your life...youāre too young to marry anyway, so go with the best friend...theyāre rare...and donāt even THINK of birdogging his girl. Thatās tacky, as well as dishonorable. Remember, in life, CHARACTER counts...and neither you, nor your best friend would ever forgive you for acting in a churlish manner. Think about something, YOU are a collection of your ACTIONS...now, you say that this girl Īlikes you tooā.....doesnāt that strike you as odd? Well, if sheās a game player, (one who would play one guy against another), wouldnāt your taking action toward her, then discovering that sheād played YOU for a fool as well, tell you something more about your character? Do what you know is right....and donāt EVER betray a friend, or be a party to an action that would have the same end. Life is too short to be a cheat. - Annabelle