Do I Have A Right To Ask?


Submitted by: G

Q - Dear Annabelle,
A guy that I dated for a month and a half stopped calling. What do I do? DO I have a right to ask what's going on?

A - Dear G,

Whatās going on is that a guy youāve dated for about 6 weeks isnāt calling you any more. I have a question......is it just possible that you could find other things to do with your life than to wonder about HIM? Iāll just bet that there are other guys who are available and interested. I know that you are offended that he has the nerve to quit calling you. Save your dignity and donāt ask. Just get on with your life. Moving ahead, not looking back is usually the best plan.

Do you have the RIGHT to ask whatās going on? Of course you do....and, if you ask, whatās he going to say? Unless your idea of fun is making a guy squirm, just let it go. You might want to give the whole process some thought though...because some day thereās going to be a guy who YOU would rather not see any more. What will you say to him?
- Annabelle


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