Q - Dear Annabelle, I have been going out with this guy for about a month and a half. We have been getting closer and closer. The other day he told me he was leaving to Oklahoma in May and never coming back. I don't know what to do.. Should I break up with him or stay with him until he leaves? Please help me. I really love him and I can't bear the thought of losing him. A - Dear Erica, You just THINK you love this guy and so youāll get to have an exciting heart break when he leaves......hey, thatās just what being 17 is all about. Of course youāre going to Īloseā him, and also every other guy you get involved with up until the time, in your mid-to-late 20ās when youāve found the guy who will be your husband. Thatās just what the teen and early adult years are all about...change, and learning about how you....and other people, Īareā in the world. Enjoy this one, donāt take it seriously and do behave in such a way that you donāt have regrets. - Annabelle