Q - Dear Annabelle, I lied to one guy that I don't have a boy-friend. (I DO, back home in my country). Now this guy wants to have relations with me... What should I do? How to "open the secret"? How still to tell him NO? I don't want him to think I'm a liar. I respect his relations towards me. A - Dear Ksenia, Iām assuming that by Īrelationsā, you do not mean sexual relations, but rather, friendship. You might want to know that you are not obliged to answer any questions about your private life...oneās private life is just that....private. You might tell him that you are willing to be a Īfriendā, nothing more. Having one or more friends is perfectly proper and understandable. If you are uncomfortable seeing him alone, then perhaps you and he can join a youth group or a club where young people go out in groups. Do not let him talk you into doing anything with which you are not completely comfortable. Have fun! - Annabelle