Q - Dear Annabelle, Please help. I don't know what to do. I'm going out with this girl that's really beautiful but really doesn't communicate that well with me. It's like I can't talk about personal stuff around or with her. The thing is, I really like her, I just need some advice on how to become closer to her. How to communicate better with her. Please help me! A - Dear Dustin, At 14 things like this can take on epic proportions......not to worry! When youâre with a girl you can always ask what are called Îopen-endedâ questions. Those are questions that require real words, not just Îyesâ or Înoâ. You can also use the H.E.L.P. Formula (below). Girls have been know to be pleased when a fellow brings them flowers..and when a fellow gives them a sincere compliment. Girls like to know that you think they have: shiny hair, pretty skin, beautiful eyes, a nice smile, a good sense of humor, are really smart in_____, ..get the idea? You can always say, ăI liked it when_____ä. ok, hereâs the formula: - Annabelle