Q - Dear Annabelle, I had a boyfriend for three months and then broke up with him because I held hands with another guy. I am not sure why I did it though. My ex will not talk to me anymore but I still love him. I told him that I am so sorry so many times but I just don't know what to do to fix this. Do you have any advice? A - Dear Amy, Write him a note that says ãWhat I did was wrong and I have apologized. If you can understand that I realize I know I made an error and will not repeat it, that would be wonderful...especially if we can continue our friendship. If you have lost faith in me and do not believe what I tell you now, I understandä. Remember, Amy, ALL your actions in life have consequences. Teenage boys, the Îgood onesâ, are very vulnerable. At 15, everyoneâs just getting their wings to try out and feelings can be pretty raw. Even if HE won't forgive you, YOU forgive you, and then be sure that, for the rest of your life, your actions are from your highest self and demonstrate your integrity, not your weakness, to the world. You have learned a very valuable lesson. Be grateful you learned it now. (Actually, you knew it along, you just wanted to test and Îsee if it were trueâ. Yes, Amy, character counts! - Annabelle