Q - Dear Annabelle, How can I fall in love with 2 people. I just got back with my ex-boyfriend but I am still in love with the man that has left me and moved to Florida. What do I do? A - Dear Karolyn, What you do is realize that, at 18, you are still young and not yet in a position to make a decision about a lifeās mate.....that maturity will come when youāre about 25+. The adolescent years and the early 20ās are for learning about other people, about yourself, and about the world and how you fit into Īthe grand scheme of thingsā. Itās understandable that you still have feelings for the person who has moved away. As long as you realize that Īfeelingsā are just that, feelings and not actions, there shouldnāt be a problem. Too, by maintaining an emotional connection with the other fellow, you are preventing yourself from becoming fully involved with this new person.....again, at 18, very understandable. As to what you do, why, you do what any young person of integrity and good character would do. You behave in such a way that you donāt mislead anyone, and develop relationships that are in concert with your plans for yourself....which are perhaps, as yet, uncertain....for the future. - Annabelle