Q - Dear Annabelle, For the past two years I have been having sexual intercourse with my basketball coach. She is 23 years old. I want to break off the relationship but I am afraid she will cut me from the team. What should I do? A - Dear Jake, If what you are telling me is true, thereās not a chance in you-know-what that she will cut you from the team. Her job....and her freedom.......is in jeopardy. Talk to your parents. Itās possible that sheās been doing this with others besides yourself and this is, essentially, an unhealthy relationship. You may have been flattered and thought it was fun, at first. Now you know better. - Annabelle