Q - Dear Annabelle, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 1 year. & 2 months and he doesn't call me as much as he use to and we don't even speak as often. I feel that he is neglecting me we don't spend as much time as we used to any more. Do you think that he is cheating on me? He always tells me that's he's Ībusyā. I know that he still loves me but he doesn't show me what should I do? A - Dear Faylene, Since you donāt say how old you are, I can only say that, with the situation as youāve described it itās time for you to turn your attentions elsewhere. Relationships have natural cycles and, since there is no marital commitment here, it looks as though itās time to move on. Iām sure itās more fun to have a good solid relationship in place, but what is, (probably), Ībestā here is just to learn what you can from the situation and move on. You say that you Īknowā that he Īstill lovesā you, yet his actions belie that feeling. Since you cannot read his mind, the only clues you have are from his behavior. His behavior indicates, as I said earlier, that itās time to get on with your life....and to find another love interest. - Annabelle