Q - Dear Annabelle, My best friend and I have a big problem. We both love this one guy named Jack. He's a hot guy, kinda shy, and sweet. Jessica, (my best friend), and him had a short relationship over the summer but she still loves him and he tells me & everyone else BUT her that he does NOT like her anymore. However, he still tries moves on her when nobody is around. Well, sometimes, anyway. Now, I've only known him for about 2-3 months but I see him every day. He tells Jessica and everyone else that I'm Īhotā and that he Īwants meā. 2 problems though. Jessica still loves him and I do NOT betray friends and 2...I think he might just be trying to get "laid" and I'm not like that at all. He is still a virgin but he acts like a male slut once in a while. I do like this guy a lot and so does Jessica. How can we work this all out so that me and Jessica stay best friends, and either I can try dating Jack or find away not 2 be jealous if he try's moves on her? Is there a way? E-mail us back RIGHT AWAY! we need 2 know. A - Dear Nicole And Jessica, Hmmmmmmm, now why does this sound like a familiar problem? Let me think here...ah, yes, I know,................ ; ) Now, my dears, you may have run into a serious problem. Your friendship, (with each other), is really more important, (over the long run of your lives), than any relationship with a guy....especially with a guy at this age. Iād love to say Īyouāre just getting your feet wetā at the boy/girl game.....but both of you are a little too seasoned to let that remark pass. I know you like this guy, Nicole.........and I donāt doubt that what you say about him is true, but take a look how youāve always described him to me....heās looking to use YOU to lose his virginity.....USE YOU ,Nicole.....what has he heard about you that would make USING YOU such a promising prospect??? Keep your friendships with each other paramount. At 15 and 16, share ice cream cones, not boys. - Annabelle