Q - Dear Annabelle, I am a nerd. I wear my pants up too high. How can I get them to not ride so high, so I don't look like a nerd. Also, my idol is a boy named Bones. He is so cool. How can I be just like him? He is so cool. Write back!!!! A - Dear Erin, At 18, feeling like a Īnerdā can be uncomfortable. It sounds as if you know some of what the problem is. How do you get them not to ride so high? Are you overweight so you waistline is not readily available? If so, a little exercise and regular working out at a gym or at school would be of help for you. Thereās a good magazine, ĪSeventeenā that could give you some useful tips. Now, forgive me if Iām jumping to an erroneous conclusion here.......you have a girlās name, yet it sounds as if youāre patterning yourself after a guy......is there some gender confusion? Could be youāre misleading either yourself, (or me), and without a clearer sense of what it is you really want, or want to be, itās kinda hard to give you a clearer answer. - Annabelle