Q - Dear Annabelle, I've got a more of a general question. You see there is a bread shop down the street from me, and I go down there quite a bit. Sometimes for my mum, and sometimes to grab a bite to eat. The last couple times I've been down there, there has been this guy working. Just yesterday I found out his name was Duane, (good ol' name tags). Now, we have spoken...about bread, money and credit cards but that's it. He's seen me with my friends, and knows I can walk to the shop due to the conversation me and my friend had in front of him. He was clearly watching/listening. Now, I'm not sure of his age/status/personality but I do know he's attractive. That's the only reason I'm interested. Yet if I don't like his personality, I am one for breaking up with the guy no matter how gorgeous he may be. One other time I was down there my mum got me to ask about getting a job there, she had no idea about 'Duane.' I might be getting a job there...So, really I'm asking if I should ask him to do something, maybe slip a note in with the money when I buy something. If you think I should attempt at doing something about Duane, what should I do and how should I do it? By the way, I have no school for three months. A - Dear Rosie, Well, working with a person is certainly a good way to get to know them better. However, keep in mind that when youâre working FOR someone, you owe your employer your allegiance and, to have a relationship that might impact negatively on the working atmosphere is not only awkward, but unethical as well. At 17, your life is going to be full of guys, but good job opportunities are sometimes at a premium. Spend the time working and just being friends with the fellow, or get a job somewhere else and have a little more freedom. Your character and your integrity are more important than any fleeting relationship......even at 17. - Annabelle