Q - Dear Annabelle, I have this great relationship with the guy of my dreams, he's so awesome. Everything about him drives me crazy, but he lives in Staten Island and, for the past 2 months, I've been seeing him on weekends because he's been coming down to his shore house. I live on the beach. Now he won't be coming home down much anymore because it's winter time. Do you think it's a waste of time to keep myself committed? now for my friend...... she wants to know if it's ok if she still is in love with her boyfriend although he's in jail. They've been together since 3rd grade and they now have been writing for four years. she wants to know if it's a wise idea to stay with him. A - Dear Smokeandwood, Yes.....youāre 16.......youāre feelings change pretty constantly at this age.) And as for your friend, no........people are in jail for a reason......at the very least heās conduct disordered and possibly a sociopath. - Annabelle