Q - Dear Annabelle, I'm in love whit a girl who left my country and went to her mother in Italy this summer, till then we were friends and we broke up 2 times now we are in love again and we can't see each other........what can I do ??? A - Moarte, You donāt say how old you are, or what country you are from, (this information REALLY helps), but, the generalā rule of thumbā for relationships is, if you break up.......and get back together.......more than once, whatever caused the breakup will continue to cause others. ĪIn loveā is such an ephemeral term and it usually has more to do with YOUR Īromanticā feelings than with reality. Iām quite sure that, in your country, wherever that may be, there are many girls who are at least as suitable for you.......of course, that may be the problem, theyāre actually where you have access to them......and thatās not nearly as Īromantic, now is it? - Annabelle