Q - Dear Annabelle, I HAVE BEEN WITH MY GUY FOR 8 MONTHS. HE HAS THIS OTHER GIRL CHASING HIM, UMM NO NOT JUST ÎCHASINGâ. SHE IS INFATUATED WITH HIM. SHE'S BEEN RINGING HIM UP AND ASKING HIM STUFF AND HE TELLS ME NOT TO WORRY ABOUT IT, HE ALSO TELLS ME I'M THE ONLY ONE. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO ABOUT THIS GIRL CAN YOU PLEASE HELP? A - Natalia, The good news is that youâre 16 so, no matter how this one turns out, itâs not the end of the world..........believe me! Now, he says Îdonât worryâ....so, donât worry. All you can EVER be in the world is YOU and the only personâs behavior that you can control is YOURS......so, what are your choices? Why, just be you and, if it turns out well, terrific. If it doesnât, well, at least you behaved well......and that does count. EVERY relationship is a learning experience and boyfriends, (and girlfriends), arenât bones for puppies to quarrel over. If you can go through these years building your character, getting an excellent education and becoming the best PERSON that you can, then youâll be far ahead of what most kids your age will have done with their lives. THEN....when the Îguy in your lifeâ REALLY counts, youâll have developed yourself into such a formidable young woman that your favorite guy wonât even see anyone else.....trust me. (And go read Îthe Rules For Being Humanâ). - Annabelle