Q - Dear Annabelle, I have been seeing this guy for a month. He seems to really like me a lot, but there have been very suspicious things going on. He said he doesn't have a girlfriend. But when I have been calling his house lately, a girl answers the phone. He says that she's a neighbor friend. We had an argument on the phone one night about this, but he still said that he didn't have a girlfriend. But there's a message on his machine, and she's on it too. Could it be a possibility that she's living with him? And also, I go by his place a lot, and he's usually never there. My friend went to his door one time, but he wasn't home. But she answered the door. Could there also be a good explanation about this should I be able to trust him? A - Dear Jen, The question is not Îcould it be a possibility that she is living with him?â. The REAL question is: Is there ANY possibility that she is NOT living with him? (Sorry, the answer is Îalmost noneâ.) Jen, there is a very old joke about a man whose wife catches him with another women, who says, ãWho are you going to believe, me or your lying eyes?ä Thatâs a joke......youâre situation is not. Jen, learn this, and learn it now. You know that Îfunnyâ feeling youâre getting that Îsomethingâs not quite rightâ? Learn to recognize and trust it....it will save you LOTS of grief in this world. This fellow sounds like a LIAR AND A LOSER......find someone else. You deserve better.....see that, in the future, you provide yourself with same. - Annabelle