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Q - Dear Annabelle,
Why are guys such assholes?
A - Dear Suzie
Gracious! I do get the feeling that youāre having a rather bad time of it! The truth of it is.........not ALL guys ARE a______s. Thatās just one of lifeās simple truths. There are some, quite frankly, fabulously wonderful guys out there. (It sure doesnāt sound as if youāve met many)...........or any. Now if THAT is the case, we have something to work with.
A Ībetterā question would be, Why is SUZIE meeting only guys who are not to her liking?ā Keep in mind that we all have, what amounts to, a Īradio stationā of sorts, that brings in Īsignalsā, i.e., people, according to the frequency WE have selected.
You see, Suzie, of ALL the people you meet on any given day, in any given week or month or year, only SOME of them are registering with you and to whom YOU are resonating. At 19, youāve either had some very bad, (what we call in the trade), Īrole modelingā or you think so very badly of yourSELF that youāre setting up very bad pairings, indeed.
My recommendation is that you find yourself a very good counselor to explore the reasons behind your choices, and to map out a plan to change your āstationā so you can change YOUR behavior and beliefs so you will begin to, not only draw a better quality of male into your awareness, but also to want to KEEP a better quality fellow for yourself. It works!...........give it a go.
- Annabelle
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