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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I've met this man on line who says he loves me very much but am very confused because both of us our married, and should i just go for it and drop everything and just go to him and can i trust him?
A - Dear Country Girl,
Letâs see if I have this straight......even though youâre married, youâve met someone oneline and you are considering dropping everything and going to him ......and youâre wondering if you can trust him, even though heâs married........and youâre asking me if YOU can Îtrust HIMâ?? Well, youâre husband canât trust you......so what does it really matter if you can trust this other fellow?
Country Girl, have you ever heard the phrase, ãOh, what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceiveä? If your private life is in disarray, thatâs something you need to deal with between you and whomever is in your private life...most especially, your husband. Do you have any idea of how lying and cheating can eat away at your soul? When you try, by going on the internet, to find a Îpatchâ to Îfixâ a hole in your heart, how is doing something that is inherently dishonest going to uplift you as a person?
If you have children, this is going to hurt them. The question you need to be asking me, and most certainly asking yourself, is Îhow can I align myself with integrity to achieve my goals?â The internet can be a dangerous place......it allow traps into which our fantasies can fall.........beware, not only of what may be Îout thereâ, but what is bubbling up from within your self.
- Annabelle
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