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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I fall for these sweet kind word people I fine in the internet world. I can tell I'm falling for a other male . The last one I meet an that was so wrong for me. What shall I do to take this one more carefully?.He is 2 states away.
A - Dear Annie,
Youāre 42.........and not feeling adequate to deal with Īrealā guys in the Īrealā world in the immediate vicinity where you live. By encouraging yourself to fill your fantasies in a virtual world you are delaying even further than you already have, successful interfacing in the REAL world of here and now.
DO people find compatible others of the internet? Of course they do.....keep in mind that it happens so rarely that the tales told of the successful matings and matches are almost apocryphal. You might start by getting off the net and into real life, real time social groups. Itās much harder to do that, I know, and the fantasy possibilities arenāt nearly as much fun.......but, from what you say, youāve not only been making poor decisions for yourself, youāve been avoiding real life for some time.
Real life, the part where we learn to get what we want in the Īrealā world, is hard and can hurt........itās also great fun and Īdoing the workā of our lives brings great joy.
- Annabelle
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