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Q - Dear Annabelle,
IS IT NORMAL FOR TWO PEOPLE WHO STILL LOVE EACH OTHER TO STILL WANT A DIVORCE. AND IF SO WHY
DO I FEEL SO HEARTBROKEN?
A - Dear B,
No, it is NOT normal Īfor two people who still love each other to still want a divorceā. Youāre not telling me the whole story. Youāre MARRIED, remember? This is not Īadvanced datingā. You have a commitment.....to each OTHER. That means, when thereās a problem, you work it OUT. Sign up for a marriage enrichment course, find a good marriage counselor, whatever. Whatever the problem is, you can find a solution. (at least thatās what you told each other BEFORE you got married, isnāt it?)
You donāt get to be an Īold married coupleā without learning how to navigate the problems. And, if you bail now, youāre gonna hate yourself for giving up. Life is long, donāt take short cuts. Thatās YOU in the mirror.
Find the ćRules for Being Humanä link. Click on it. Read it.
Things WILL get better....maybe not right away.........but they will.
- Annabelle
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