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Q - Dear Annabelle,
My husband just started a new job THIRD SHIFT! I hate it! I want to sleep with him at night . It seems we are always missing each other. When I get up in the morning with our 2 kids,he is just getting ready for bed. And when he gets up, I already tired from chasing our year old daughter around, housework, etc. I'm starting to resent him but I
know he is working for us. What can I do to stop feeling so angry at him for not being there?
A - Dear Laura,
The first thing to do is not to let your feelings fester.....................sit down and talk about it without anger or resentment. If your sex life was good before, you can find ways around this. If your husband took a third shift job as a way of avoiding contact
with you, this is the time to discuss the underlying problem. At very least, make the best possible use of his days off. Find someone to mind the children while you (two) add spice to what time you DO have!
- Annabelle
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