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Q - Dear Annabelle,
Yeaterday I found out that my husband and a very good friend of mine(now ex-friend) met up one night
out, danced, kissed once(supposedly), went eat breakfast, and rode around until 5am in the morning
while my pregnant self was at home worrying about him, wondering if he was hurt, dead, etc..and tired
out of my wits. He repeatedly said he only kissed here that one time and nothing happened between
them in the car. She swears up and down the same thing. Now, this girl has vaginal warts and I am
very scared of all of the possibilities that are flying through my mind. First of all, i don't know how to
handle this because my husband never did this before and was very drunk. I though I could trust them
both but that is all shattered now. How do I go on. I know she and I will never be friends again and I
have to live with him...I love him and he proclaims to love me and I fell that this is definately true. What
should I do? I am very hurt that he did this and can't sleep at n!
ight. Please help!
A - Jessica,
Oh, great.......! With Īfriendsā like this..........who needs enemies? Your husband, in my never-to-be-humble-opinion needs a good smack upside the you-know-what. How DARE he act like a bum when heās got a pregnant wife to care for?? Look, I know Īall the stuffā guys think/say they feel about how they, (the weak ones, anyway), feel when they Īcanāt have sex whenever they feel like itā and I KNOW how unsettling it can be to live with a woman going through the hormonal rages of pregnancy....(no I donāt know what itās LIKE to live with one, but, having seen the looks on faces, when I was awash in hormones, I can guess ; ) )
Now, I hope heās decent enough to admit heās been a terrible cad and is now treating you with the kid gloves you deserve, adding maybe even an extra diamond or two, after acting like such a jerk....or worse. Too, Iām sorry for your loss of a friend....(and that you even knew someone of such low character.) Itās a sorry female who will act in a way that endangers your good humor...not to mention the strength of your marriage. Some women, Iām afraid are just low class predators.....men donāt have the corner on lack of character thatās for sure.
Check with your physician and be SURE he knows about the vaginal warts in case thatās relevant to the delivery of your baby. What should you do? Well, to the best of your ability, remain clam and unagitated. Thatās a life that youāre gestating there, and youād like to have a calm child..not one living with sorrow and rage. And..have an easy delivery. May the rest of your marriage be MUCH happier.
- Annabelle
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