Should I Tell My Husband?


Submitted by: Tiffany

Q - Dear Annabelle,
I have been married for 5 years. The marriage has been on the rough side for the past 2 years. A few months ago I met someone and had an affair. It is over now. My husband and I are starting counseling through Scientology where they use an "e-meter" to get your true feelings. I do not feel that it is necessary to tell my husband what I have done. I am afraid this e-meter will read me and the counselor will know that I am not revealing all and then I will have to tell him and I just don't see the need to do that. (I have been tested since the affair and we used a condom..everything is fine). When I had my affair, my spouse had met someone else that he thought he loved...but as far as I know, he never slept with her. Now, we are both committed to making our marriage work.

So my question is should I tell my husband about this affair?

A - Tiffany,

No........and what you are getting yourself into now is going to prove rather interesting, indeed.
- Annabelle


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