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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I am finding it difficult in dealing with my husbands job, he works abroad all the time, and only comes home weekends. when he does come home he seems very distant.
i feel so depressed about this.
A - Kathleen,
Iād feel depressed about this too.....if I didnāt know how to deal with it. You have a situation where you need to have better communication, and the only way to do that is to develop skills in that area. If you really want this to change, find a good marriage counselor and start learning how to better deal with the situation that youāve been living with for so long. Your marriage may or may not survive, but you need to look at the situation you now have and ask yourself if, in five years, you want to be in the same place you are now. Is there something Īhiddenā? Perhaps....and until you have the skills to ask, and to hear, whatās going on, the inner stress youāre feeling over the process will continue. Is this the way you want to live?
- Annabelle
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