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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I feel as if my husband is looking for someon
e else. Clues; sneaks out for days & doesn't s
ay anything about it.&, after coming back sa
ys how awful I look & talks to divorced f
riends on the web & says he trying to h
elp others women to help them get ther
e lives together.Should I be concerned?
A - Dear Peggy,
Yes.
- Annabelle
Q - Dear Annabelle,
I'm I on the right track to think he 's looking for another women or am I jumping the gun? Should I be concerned about his relationship with his female on line friends?
A - Dear Peggy,
Anytime there is an emotional Īleakā outside of the marriage, there is a problem. His relationship with his online friends is a SYMPTOM of something going on, not only within himself, but within the marriage as well.
From what little you have told me, I think it behooves the two of you to spend time with a psychologist who is also trained as a marriage counselor..........the Īmid-life crisisā is a real event having to do with a developmental stage of reevaluating onesās progress and place in life before going Īonā........and confusion, depression, and inappropriate and destructive behavior can result.
Without a stabilizing influence, i.e., the counselor, who knows where to look and how to do so impassively, your relationship could take a further downward slide.
- Annabelle
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