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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I am divorced with 2 young boys. There's a 34 year man who is very interested in me. He's just coming out of a 7 year relationship, (not married) ...the problem is they are still living together, although he says they have Īgone their separate waysā, and he's continuing with his life, and she with hers. They are still co-habiting because their lease doesn't expire until June. (They come and go as they please, no questions asked ...he says)
I'm reluctant to start a relationship with him, firstly Īcause it's difficult to trust after a divorce, and secondly, how do I know he's being sincere? What if he wants his cake and to eat it too? What are your views? I would appreciate your input.
A - Catherine,
You are a very smart lady, (and you already know the answer to this one). And, for the sake of your boys, be wary of involving them with anyone with whom they might experience disappointment in the event things donāt work out with you. That this man has lived with a woman to whom he is not married is a very bad sign and does not bode well for you..........at all. Yes, heās most likely looking for a new Īblankieā, and youāre the, (current), Īitā. Donāt let yourself be fooled by accepting less than the best for your family.
- Annabelle
Q - Dear Annabelle,
Thank you very much for your response. I actually declined going out with him at the start of the year. You're right, I did know the answer all along....:-)
A - Catherine,
Youāve very welcome......now continue to use that good brain of yours!
- Annabelle
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