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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I don't know why I like the girls from the Philippines.
They are attracting me all the time. My friends all say,
"Why don't you try to fall in love with other nationality
than Filipino?" But I can't.
Please help me to know how to choose the right girl.
A - Dear Zuhair,
That you find only Philippinas attractive speaks, not just to their inherent beauty, but also to your inner programming. This is not so much about your finding only the Philippine women attractive, as it is about an esthetic decision made by you when you were very, very young. It is most likely that you either saw, and were held by, someone who closely resembled the women to whom you are also attracted today. It is most likely that there was also a 'scent' imprint as well, and, likely, even a 'taste' imprint.
These would have long ago disappeared into your unconscious and left you with a longing for a reunion with a warm and pleasurable memory.
That your are solely attracted to these women says nothing for them, only that your are reacting to, what is called, a 'transference memory'. This has nothing to do with the quality of the woman herself, only what you project onto her as your current desire of possession.
You ask me to help you choose the 'right girl'. Unless it is possible for you to obtain some really good psychological help, that you may free yourself from seeking a 'type' and then begin seeking a 'person' (and, at 32, you would logically be seeking a 'woman' and not a 'girl'), there is not much actual chance of your 'choosing' the right person. Your unconscious is driving you, not your centered and whole self.
- Annabelle
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