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Q - Dear Annabelle,
How do I keep a man? I can find them but keeping them is a different story. They are ok as long as we chat on the phone, but when we meet, it is totally different. I think I am too nice or quiet.
A - Dear Latoria,
You Īgetā a man,-- and keep -- him by being utterly fascinating and delightful. Think of a movie you really love.........and would enjoy seeing, again and again. Did the movie Ījust happenā?.....or were there months, (probably years), of planning, preparation, designing, and work work WORK that went into bringing that fabulous film to the screen?
A human life -- YOUR life, Latoria, -- is much the same. Are you a wonderful project Īin developmentā, as we say here in the Land of the Lotus Eaters, or did you just get plopped onto this earth and find yourself roaming about the world with no master plan? (No Īstoryboardā, as it were.)
Latoria, would you build a mansion with no plan? A car? ANYTHING?? Your life is no different. Remember school? (What was THAT all about, anyway??) You donāt say how old you are, but Iāll be willing to bet you that if you lay out a five-year plan for your life.......(find someone whom you respect in your town to help you do this)....and stick to it, that, at the end of the five years, youāll have so many men wanting to share that wonderful life youāve built for yourself -- not to mention wanting to share YOU, that youāll (almost) forget that, right now, at least, you canāt Īget a manā at all.
(People arenāt Īgottenā -- people are Īattractedā). You can do it.....go for it!!
- Annabelle
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