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Q - Dear Annabelle,
How are you today?Hope you are in good health.
I would like to ask you something about my girlfriend. She is very pretty,nice,nice body,and very attractive.I like her so much, I loved her from the first time I spoke to her. We are seeing each other almost everyday. I had visited her many time.I don't know if she like's me or no?
Sometimes, when we are talking, I feel she like's me, but I sill I don't know. I had tried many times to show her that I loved her, but she didn't understand me. One day
I call her by phone and I told her that I love her and I want her to be my girlfriend, but she had killed me with her answer.
She told me better just to be only friends. But you know I still love her and still I need her. Can you help me Please........ .
A - Dear Zuhair,
Your situation is not an uncommon one.....however, you MUST listen to what the lady has said. YOU built a fantasy in your head about how YOU wanted the relationship to be. SHE does not reciprocate your feelings and has politely told you so.
These things happen.....often.........and itās just a part of life. If you cannot get her out of your mind, then it is YOUR responsibility to find a counselor who can help you to find a healthier expression for your needs.
Youāll live........it just hurts for awhile.
- Annabelle
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