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Q - Dear Annabelle,
What makes a lady on the service decline getting to know someone
via email, other than in obvious cases (age etc...)?
A - Dear R,
A couple of possibilities come to mind........some gentlemen, and
ladies, are simply so good looking that's it's quite off-putting
to others who evidently automatically assume that they're stuck up
and 'would't like me anyway, so I'll reject them first'........
that's neither fair nor reasonable, it just is. Other people don't
really realize that, by limiting their 'yesses' to people who exactly
meet their real (or imagined) criteria, they are missing out on people
who would be wonderful new friends. After all, we don't marry or make
lovers of everyone we meet, and new friends are always a delight.
Wouldn't it be nice if more people thought of these services as ways
of finding new and interesting acquaintances first, and maybe lovers
and permanent mates later?
- Annabelle
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