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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I have 2 questions.
1. why are black women seem to be more open and not as stuck on themselves as
white women?
2. why are most women seeking men significantly taller than they are? I am 5'6'' tall
and don't have a problem with it, but have a very difficult time getting dates.
A - Dear Kep,
I canât tell from your email in which isection of the US you live, so the answer to the first question has to be ÎI have no ideaâ. (Your observations and experiences would not necessarily be universa)l. I will say that how you interact with other people has a great deal to do with how they react to you.
To your second question, I can only say that this, too, is not necessarily Îalwaysâ the case. Yes, women seem to prefer taller men, )possibly because they feel more protected_. Size counts. Now, having said Îsize countsâ, lets take another look. That you are 5â6ââ you cannot really change. What you CAN change is your educational level, therefore your social and financial position, in the male hierarchy.
Donât EVER kid yourself that $$$ wonât overcome reluctance to be with a Îshorterâ man. (Have you ever seen the beauties who are married to jockeys?) And, you know, itâs NOT just $$! There are many, many men who are in positions of power in all fields who are catnip to women. As one of the worldâs great vertically challenged males, (Kissinger), once said, ãPower is the ultimate aphrodisiacä. These are avenues open to anyone who is willing to put in the work to have the rewards.
Remember all those years of school? Yes, what WERE those about? Preparation for real life.....thatâs what. And, you know, itâs never too late to get out there and get a PhD. Trust me on this one, Kep.
Get a copy of a fairly old and still very valuable book.......Dale Carnegieâs ãHow to Win Friends and Influence Peopleä. Commit it to memory. I think youâll be amazed at how things change for you.
- Annabelle
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