Wrong To Move In With A Man?


Submitted by: Rhonda

Q - Dear Annabelle,
Is it wrong to move in with a man after 4 months of dating if you think he is the right one?

A - Dear Rhonda,

(The Īright oneā...... for what?)

Yes. Not only is it wrong, itās a tactical error. If, in fact, he is Īthe oneā, (which you wonāt know for a year or more, anyway), he will, one day, get down on one knee offer you a very expensive ring and ask you to be his wife.

Iām assuming that thatās what you mean by Īthe oneā. Otherwise, the only Īoneā youāre likely to be is the Īoneā heās in bed with right now. At 33, youāre no longer a child. Eating the frosting off the cake can have unpleasant surprises......like, thereās no cake under there at all.

Make yourself so utterly desirable as a woman that the guys will consider themselves lucky to get your attention and donāt EVER shack up with one.......not if you hope to be married. Bad plan.
- Annabelle


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