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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I've been in a relationship for 1 year and we had broken everything off a couple times, and then we agreed that we couldn't be apart. Now sheās left me and says she love's me but she not in love with me and she finds herself looking at other men. I think she is just confused I try to get her back or do I stay away from her?
A - Dear Robert,
As a Īgeneral ruleā, things that break up a relationship tend to keep breaking up a relationship. Sometimes two people just arenāt a match. That you are drawn to each other is one thing....and the factors that go into the attraction are many. Some of the attraction comes from infancy, some straight from the limbic system, (thatās the primitive part of the brain), and the rest of the attraction is there for other reasons. Very little Īattractionā is manipulated intellectually.
Now, having said all of that, do you stay away from her? I donāt know. Do something really wonderful, possibly heroic...your part of the world is known for amazing deeds. Might work. In any case, some lovely will surely notice you. This one may or may not, be Īconfusedā she may just be trying to spare your feelings. There are a couple of other statements...... she says that sheās Īlooking at other menā and not Īin loveā with you, Iād say that thatās a pretty good indication that itās time to find someone else with whom to share your sleigh. Look on the bright side....now you know a couple of Ībuzzwordsā and what they translate into. (Yeah, I know......darn!) Sorry : (
- Annabelle
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