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Q - Dear Annabelle,
When ever I met a man he attract me so much, but I cannot attract any man.
What must I do? Recently, I met a man. He attract me so much but he didn't contact me. I always attract by wrong man
A - Dear Margaret,
This must, at 55, be very painful for you... I do not know what you look like, or what your personality is, but, (and forgive me here, please, for my bluntness), your educational level may be part of the problem.
Now, lets put that aside for a moment and go for how Īhumans areā. Men, in general are attracted by a wonderful smile....they like to feel welcomed by a female...and accepted. That, however, can attract a predator as well as attract a worthwhile potential mate.
Men, in general, prefer a woman who is clean and who smells gooood, not heavily perfumed, mind you, just, well, Īgoodā. ĪCleanā is a VERY Īgoodā thing. If you can appeal to their sense of smell as well as to their sense of sight, thatās a good start right there. If your teeth are in excellent repair and your breath fresh, if your hair is soft and shiny, your eyes bright and your skin feels soft and squeezable, your body limber, (dancing helps here!), and your personality charming...well, these things go a long way to making a male feel heād like to know you better.
If your body is well kept and your clothing in good repair, INCLUDING your shoes, if your nails are clean and well manicured, then you can turn to your Īinnerā self. If what you have to say is interesting, if you have a lively sense of humor and a lovely laugh, if you appreciate a manās jokes and think heās fascinating, if you have a wide range of topics that interest you and if you LOVE the joy of life and express it in your very being, all these things are enticement for a man. Now, take a look at your Īnestā...is your home clean and reasonably tidy? Does it smell fresh and look pleasing? Does it reflect your love of life. Would a man feel Īat homeā there?
Men feel happy if a woman thinks they are wonderful.....interesting......clever. Someone once said, ćA beautiful woman is one whom I notice, a charming woman is one who notices me!ä Men donāt like to feel theyāve been Īcapturedā......they DO like to feel Īluredā. Now, to Īlureā ANY organism, you need to be aware of the Ībaitā that you are using. Go over this list above and set yourself a good six-month program to see where you might make improvements to your Īselfā....I donāt know if you are aware of the wonderful French actress Jeanne Moreau. While she has not the worldās greatest physical beauty, (she actually has always bordered on being Īplainā), her Īauraā if you will has, even from my earliest seeing of her, been soooooo amazing. Now THAT woman KNOWS about attracting men!
Much good luck to you on your journey....may you find what you desire..!
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