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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I have a situation and I don't know what to do. Eight months ago a guy that I once went with came back into my life. We have been friends over 10 years and we have been through a lot together. We broke up about 10 years ago because he was living a life that he knew I wouldn't approve of. And he says that he didn't want to put me through all of the hard time and pain. About eight months ago he can back and said that he was ready to be with me and change his life around. Everything was fine until his baby's mother started in on him. So I talked to him and told him the best thing to do is go ahead and put child support on himself and get rights to see the child if it is his (That still is a question).
However, she wouldn't send in the paper to the attorney generals office for the process to start. About 4 months later she says she is pregnant by him. Being that he was with her before he was with he it is a good chance that the child is his. Even after that she still will not send in the papers. And on top of that she pages him all day and call him at
work all of the time. She says that she don't want him but, why would she page him all of the time and want him to come over there all of the time. I can sit here all day and tell you all of the things she has pulled, and he still falls into her traps. Then, I have the problem with all of the hanging out he does with his Īso calledā friends. They page him
24 hours of the day and some of them are girls also. He tells me that they are friends and I don't have nothing to worry about.
He says that he loves me and wants to marry me, but I still can't help but feel insecure. How can I feel insecure when he rather spend time with his friends that me, his pager goes off all day and night, and a women that he once had feeling for and probably has children with won't leave him along. He says that I worry to much about nothing. But I can't help but feel the way that I do. Maybe it's my own insecurities but, I can't help it. I know he loves he, but how can a build a future with him feeling the way that I do.
A - Dear Erica,
There are two possibilities here. That you act in your own BEST interests and forget this guy OR you keep him in your life and add yourself to the list of people who page him. Remember, who you ATTRACT tells you who you ARE. Choose wisely........
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