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Q - Dear Annabelle,
Since last March I have been working weekend graveyards. I only work three days a
week. They are Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights. I took this position with a great
company when I was with a someone at the time. She was all for it because it fit into her schedule just great. A month after taking the job we split up. Ever since then, I have been on 6 or so dates with different women. When it comes up to my work schedule they nearly run and are no longer interested. I cannot switch jobs for another 5 months but at the same time would love to date again, what can I do?
A - Dear Scott,
This is a difficult one because, to attract women, you need to have a great job.........hmmmmmm, this is a problem. I could say that, anyone really interested in you would be willing to work around your schedule, but thatâs probably too obvious. You don't say how old you are, so I canât be of too much help here......(yes, the little things ARE important), so my Îbest guessâ is that youâre going to have to play-it-as-it-laysâ until you can, again, shift to another time slot.
You know, Iâve known lots of guys in my life and the REALLY fascinating ones, the ones who had a passion for their work and a plan for their lives, were catnip to women. You might want to give some thought to enhancing your Îselfâ....the Îrightâ woman will wait for the Îrightâ guy.....have you taken care to prepare yourself and BE the Îrightâ guy?
- Annabelle
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