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Q - Dear Annabelle,
A - Dear Antrish,
Gee, why would you Ītotally give up onā a guy who demonstrates that the best way he knows how to have a relationship is to have a spare woman standing by? Sounds like a winner to me! (No?....you don't think so?) Let me guess...YOU think youād make a better Īmatchā for him..yes? Well, if YOUāD make a better Īmatchā for him, whatās he doing spending time with that other female who is making his life miserable?
Hmmm, if I were to guess, Iād say thatās a fair representation of either his relationship with his sister or his fatherās relationship with his mother. (And probably the latter). You see, if HE can somehow Īmake the OTHER female be NICE to himā, then maybe his MOTHER will be nice to him/his dad. Itās a great deal more complicated than that, but that sounds very like the track THAT train runs on.
NOW.....why is it that YOU are interested in HIM? Well, again, if I were to guess, Iād bet that, when you were about four years old...and maybe for your entire life, ......and you wanted Īdaddyāsā attentions, he was either busy, tired, or involved with mom....or maybe itās YOUR mom and dad who have a difficult relationship. Anyway, youāre setting yourself up as the Īfixerā. This is getting awfully long..........
Find someone whoās emotionally healthy. Īcourse, to do that, YOU have to be emotionally healthy. Sigh.
- Annabelle
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