Q - Dear Annabelle, I met a wonderful man, attentive, caring, giving, etc. We've been seeing each other 6 months. We plan on marring HOWEVER, he's constant criticizing little daily things. (OK, heās a picky eater and I can learn to cook for him.) But I seem to rub him the wrong way on so many things. Not just cooking also,how I do laundry, how I clean, how long I take to get ready, how I keep my car, etc. I am very clean. He is anal. Sounds like a red flag, don't you think? A - Dear Robin, Iām so tempted to just say ***!!!YES!!!*** ........you WANT to live this way? (Trust me, this is NOT going to get better.) Hey, youāre 43, is this the last chance for you? Look, I just finished a huge study on singles joining singles groups....know what the Īmedian ageā is?......45! Unless you think this guy is just so much fun that you canāt imagine any other relationship, you might want to rethink this one! - Annabelle

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