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Q - Dear Annabelle,
What is your advice to a woman who has found the love of her life and this wonderful man is married?
A - Dear Jill,
Well, if it is YOU who are married to that Īwonderful manā....Iād say, have a fabulous life. Think for a moment, youāre his wife, you and he have a committed life together and someone outside the marriage would just LOVE to see you gone so she can have him for herself. Now, you know that in being married, lots of things happen, and sometimes the road gets bumpy. How would you feel knowing that Īsomeoneā was Īout thereā just waiting to distract him from what he needs to do to keep his life and his marriage on track?
What kind of person would that woman be? An opportunist? A predator?.......look in the mirror, Jill......what kind of person are YOU that you would consider harming, not only someone whom you say is Īthe love of your lifeā, but also consider harming yourself by doing what is inherently a dishonest act?
I know that truly wonderful men and good matches are rare..........but think, for a moment. If this man is so Īwonderfulā....and I donāt doubt that your assessment of him is correct......then he wouldnāt be led astray...now would he? And you, Jill, are above such disloyal behavior.......yes?
- Annabelle
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