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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I need help. I recently started dating this woman that I really, really like and I'm wondering whether or not to give her a Christmas gift. Since we have only been dating for three weeks, I am afraid that if I get her a gift or maybe a gift that is too expensive that I will send the wrong message and only succeed in scaring her away. I only want to do what is best because I'd like for her to stay around. Please tell me what to do.
A - Dear Bill,
Ahhhh, a man who knows that Īgift givingā is a good thing! (Yes, BUT)..........now, youāve know her a VERY short time, so your instincts are correct. For this occasion, the Good Lord, in his/her/whatever-the-case-may-beās wisdom, has allowed to be created CHOCOLATE or FLOWERS......or small trinkets such as something lovely from a nice shop*, although the first two are easier and may cause less grief in the long run. This does not mean anything of a personal nature. No clothing, jewelry or such. Just something that says, ĪIām thinking of you and am happy with our time togetherā.
Giving her something small, yet noncommittal shows her that you know enough to give a gift and yet also know enough not to overwhelm her with more than is appropriate. Anything that indicates that you are thanking her for her time and are delighted with her interest will most likely keep her open to further adventure and intrigues. Good luck, have fun, and Happy Holidays!
* By Īnice shopā, your financial situation may even include a pass through Tiffanyās. If that is the case, they have very small pill boxes or key rings or pens that would do. (Iād still stick with the chocolate or flowers).
- Annabelle
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