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Q - Dear Annabelle,
Help! I am attracted to two women, (Wendy and Carol), at once, and have no idea what to do! I have gone out with Wendy once--had a great time, no kissing, but she sounds open to going out again. Carol is someone I work with, and is someone I know I can have fun with, but I don't know if it is wise to date two women at once, especially when I work with one of them! I am desperate for some guidance. Thanks!
A - Dear Andy,
It is, (almost), NEVER a good idea to date someone where you work.........the repercussions can be just too delicate and difficult. Dating more than one woman at a time is not a problem AS LONG AS you donāt lead either of them to believe that you are seeing them exclusively. Needless t say, you do NOT have a sexual relations in casual relationships. That is not only good health sense, but good emotional sense as well.
You are certainly, at 27, old enough to think seriously about marrying and, when youāve found someone with whom youād like to have an exclusive, committed, monogamous relationship, then you Īdisinviteā, carefully, any other ladies whom you may have been seeing. Preserving your integrity, and their dignity, is in everyoneās best interests.
- Annabelle
Q - Dear Annabelle,
Thanks for your advice. I've decided to wait on dating anyone from work, and just keep looking around in non-work areas. I agree-there are just too many factors to balance in a workplace relationship. Thanks again!
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