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Q - Dear Annabelle,
I am confused. I have been seeing this guy for awhile. We are both busy and work a lot. We are(?) intimate. For a while we were seeing a lot of each other. Now he seems nervous around me. I am not judgmental so he has nothing to worry about. He was always calling me at night to see how my day went and to visit. I have not talked to him in about a month. I know he has been working overtime at one of his jobs.
He bar tends some nights so I go to the bar to see him. Lately he ignores me. We live across the street from each other so we know if the other person is coming or going. His only complaint about sex was he could never get enough. He does live with his parents but I don't care. I have sent him notes and cards and tried calling to talk to him but he says he is busy and can't talk now. I am very fond of him. When I think of him, I smile. Do you have any advice? Thank you.
A - Dear Face,
Forgive me for being so long in getting back to you.....
You have probably already figured out that itās time to get on with your life. When a relationship is Īmeant to beā, it keeps growing and building, not tottering and going into a stall and falling apart. That his only complaint was that Īhe couldnāt get enough sexā, indicates, to me, that he was just using you for just that purpose. (Sorry). I know life can deal a bad hand on occasion, just be a little more choosy at whose card table you sit.
- Annabelle
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