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Q - Dear Annabelle,
What do you do when you are so in love with a man yet youāve found his vehicle in front of his ex-wifeās house? Do you believe him when he tells you they are discussing their daughter who is always lying to him and to her mother?
A - Dear Theresa,
This may not be the relationship for you.....as long as there is a minor child, the wife, (her mother), will be in his life. Now, for you to go so far as to know that his car was at his wifeās house, indicates that there are other problems not specified in your letter. You have a lot to deal with here and, because you happen to live in close proximity to one of the most amazing therapists it has been my privilege to know, if you are interested in a referral, write again to me and Iāll will send you the address. It could be that you are in need of a better understanding, not only of how YOU see things, but also, of how to get your needs met without causing friction in a relationship. You want to keep this guy....without making him crazy. Leave that part up to his ex.
- Annabelle
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